Premarital Cohabitation vs. Trial marriage (Shi Hun): Pros and Cons analysis and Correct Practices on destiny analysis (Ming Li) | Xuan Xue (mystical studies) Encyclopedia

People who support premarital cohabitation usually give the following reasons: ① [See the real other person in advance]: When dating, everyone "pretends"—pretending to be generous, gentle, and clean. If you can't pretend to live together, your true colors will be revealed, and you can discover the other person's flaws in advance. ②【Living habits (Sheng Huo Xi Guan) Early Adjustment】: Who washes the dishes, who mops the Earth (Di), who takes out the trash, when to go to bed, whether to eat spicy food, whether to turn on the air conditioner (Incipient Moment (Ji), whether to squeeze toothpaste from between the center (Zhong) or from behind - these "little things" are the real killers of the marriage center (Zhong); ③【Harmonious sex life】: Harmonious sex life has a great impact on marital happiness. Try Closeness/Neighboring (Bi) beforehand. If you find disharmony after marriage, then Li (Fire) will strengthen your marriage. ④ [Confirmation of Responsibility]: Living together allows you to see whether the other person knows how to do housework, whether they will take the initiative to receive/support (Cheng), whether they will avoid problems, and whether they have a plan for spending money - these are all essential for married life. ⑤ [Saves money and hassle]: If two people live together, they can save on rent, mortgage, Water (Shui), electricity, and grocery shopping. The money saved can be saved for marriage; ⑥ [Reduce the probability of Regret after marriage]: Show your partner your most authentic side in advance, so that after marriage you won't Regret (Hui)Li (Fire) the marriage.

Opposite and Inverted (Fan Dui) People who live together before marriage have equally good reasons: ① [The longer they live together, the less they want to get married]: The "sense of ritual of marriage" is gone - since living together is no different from getting married, why do they still need to get a marriage certificate and have a wedding? Especially men, once they get it, they don't want to take responsibility anymore; ②【Low breakup cost】: If you live together, argue, or get tired of it, you can just pack your bags and leave. There is no constraint of a marriage certificate, and the breakup rate is much higher than that of a normal Husband and Wife (Fu Qi). ③ [Girls suffer more]: Physiologically, girls have to receive/support (Cheng) and bear the Wind (Feng) risk of pregnancy and miscarriage (Tai) (which is extremely harmful to the body); Society is generally tolerant of boys living together before marriage, which leads to discussions about girls being "indecent" and "devalued"; ④【east (Dong) west (Xi) that "Trial marriage (Shi Hun)" can't prove】: You can prove whether he washes the dishes or not, but you can't prove whether you will stay with him if he is bankrupt, whether you will not take care of him if he is paralyzed, or whether you will receive/support him if his family has problems—the biggest test of marriage is not "daily life", but "hardship"; ⑤ [Consuming Blessing retribution (Fu Bao)]: From traditional destiny analysis (Ming Li) and Xuan Xue (mystical studies) From this perspective, premarital cohabitation and premarital sex, if they do not get married in the end, consume the Blessing retribution (Fu Bao) of the marriage—especially if they miscarry, which is a serious consumption of Blessing retribution (Fu Bao). Many people live with their first love for a good Incipient Moment (Ji) but fail in the end, and then cannot find a good partner. This is the reason.

Not everyone is suitable for cohabitation before Marriage compatibility (He Hun). Some people become happier the more they try, while others become worse the more they try. ★ [Suitable for Trial marriage (Shi Hun)/Ba zi (courtesy name) for Premarital Cohabitation] ① FeMale Destiny (Ming) Official & Killing Mixed (Guan Sha Hun Za), Male Destiny (Ming) Wealth stars (Cai Xing) Many: There are many opposite-sex relationships and it is difficult to choose. You need to "try" to know which Dao (the Way) is the most suitable. ②Natal chart / Destiny Chart (Ming Pan)center (Zhong)Food and Hurting strong (Shi Shang Wang), Hurting Officer (Shang Guan)prosperous (Wang): They are rebellious, dislike traditional constraints, and are unwilling to accept the rule of "getting married before living together"; ③ Strong Day Master (Ri Chen) + Natal chart/Destiny Chart (Ming Pan) Go all out and do more: Joy (Xi) likes to "experience before deciding", so the probability of getting married after living together is actually higher; ④Purple Star (Zi Wei)Spouse palace (Fu Qi Gong)Vanquisher (Po Jun)/Seven Killings (Qi Sha): Destiny (Ming) is inherently a "no-destroy-no-build" philosophy. Breaking down traditional forms before establishing a marriage is actually more stable. ★ [Extinction (Jue) for Ba zi (courtesy name) who are not suitable for Trial marriage (Shi Hun)/Premarital Cohabitation] ①FeMale Destiny (Ming) Weak Day Master (Ri Chen) Officer and Seven Killings as unfavorable (Guan Sha Wei Ji): It is inherently capable of Yi (2nd Heavenly Stem) Being deceived or taken advantage of by a man is a should, and after living together, it is even more likely to Yi (2nd Heavenly Stem) being dumped and Heart (Xin) being injured; ②Natal chart / Destiny Chart (Ming Pan) Peach Blossom star (Tao Hua) prosperous (Wang) + Many biases (FeMale Destiny (Ming) Seven Killings (Qi Sha) Many / Male Destiny (Ming) InDirect Wealth (Zheng Cai) Many) Cohabitation gives the other person the opportunity to "enjoy marital rights for free without Receiving/Supporting (Cheng) marital responsibilities," and in the end, they are highly likely not to get married. ③FeMale Destiny (Ming) Official Star (Guan Xing) Empty VoId (Ben Wo), Male Destiny (Ming) Wealth stars (Cai Xing) Empty VoId (Ben Wo): and Object Destiny connection (Yuan Fen) Shallow, with a high probability of breaking up after living together; ④ Either party Destiny (Ming) with children Zi Rat (Shu) Destiny (Ming)/UnHappy marriage (Hun Yin Mei Man) Information: Premarital cohabitation will consume the already limited marital Blessing retribution (Fu Bao), and in the end, they will not be able to get married.

If you have decided to live together before marriage, please meet the following Incipient Moment (Ji) points to minimize harm: ① [Only live together if you have plans to get married]: Do not live together "because you should/it is convenient/you want to have sex". At least both parties have met their Parents (Fu Mu), agree to get married by default, and have a rough timetable for marriage (within 1-2 years). If the other person says, "I haven't considered getting married yet," then don't live together; ②【Take protective measures】: This is the most basic responsibility for a woman's health! Extinction (Jue) means not wanting Wei Goat (Wei), marriage, pregnancy, and abortion (Tai). Abortion (Tai) is extremely harmful to a woman's body and is also a great form of destruction. It will severely deplete the Blessing retribution (Fu Bao) of the marriage. Many people's relationships break down after abortion (Tai). ③ [Finances should be clearly defined]: How rent should be divided, how living expenses should be paid, and each person should manage their own money - don't get mixed up from the beginning. If you don't calculate the Pentad / five-day period (Hou) clearly when you break up, you will turn against each other. ④ [Maintain your independence]: Don't be stuck together 24 hours a day. Each person has their own social circle, hobbies, and personal space. Even when living together, don't forget dates, rituals, and dressing up. ⑤【Meeting the other person's Family and friends】: Once you live together, you should integrate into the other person's Family (Jia Ting) and social circle. A real "Trial marriage (Shi Hun)" is to test whether two families (Jia Ting) can get along, not just two people; ⑥ [Set a "deadline" for yourself]: Neighboring (Bi) If you have been living together for 1-2 years and there is no mention of marriage and there is no progress, then you should seriously consider whether to continue the relationship and not drag it out indefinitely, especially for girls, green / Blue (Lan Se) spring (Chun) cannot afford to wait.

Finally, I want to say something truly heartfelt: ① In fact, what can truly "test" whether two people can get married is never "whether they live together and wash the dishes"—but rather whether they have experienced things together: Neighboring (Bi), such as going on a long trip together (which best reveals a person's Spleen (Pi)Vital energy (Qi) and sense of responsibility); Neighboring (Bi) Home Inns Life Sickness (Bing) Hospitalization depends on how he takes care of it; Neighboring (Bi) For example, if a business fails together or loses money, it depends on his attitude; Neighboring (Bi) For example, when renovating a house, buying a car, or buying a large item, Pentad / five-day period (Hou) depends on how the two people negotiate; Only these "things" can reveal a person's true character and sense of responsibility; ② Whether you live together first and then get married, or get married first and then live together, the most important thing is that both people are loyal to the relationship, responsible to each other, and have the determination (Xin) and Vital energy (Qi) to walk together. ③ If you truly love someone, give them a ming (given name), a Receiving/Supporting (Cheng) promise, and a home—living together is "playing house," while getting married is "living life together." ④ Finally, I wish every couple in love: no matter what kind of love you choose, you will eventually walk into the hall of marriage, hold Zi Rat's hand, and grow old together.