Marriage compatibility (He Hun): Ba zi (courtesy name) on the Separation of Two Earth (Di) Characters and Whether Their Relationship Can Last | Xuan Xue (mystical studies) Encyclopedia
Is Li (Fire) the killer of love? destiny analysis (Ming Li): Love in a Different Earth
The breakup rate for different Earth (Di) relationships and cross-border relationships is very high, and the distance from Li (Fire) and time difference are the biggest tests of relationships. From the perspective of destiny studies (Ming Li Xue), we can see who is suitable for a different Earth (Di) relationship, who is bound to break up with a different Earth (Di), and how to maintain a different Earth (Di) relationship. This article provides a Detailed explanation (Xiang Jie) of Marriage compatibility (He Hun) and a destiny analysis (Ming Li). Judgment and business advice.
(1), How difficult is it to fall in love with someone from a different Earth?
Why is the breakup rate high in different-Earth (Di) relationships? Because the problems caused by Li (Fire) are real: ① When needed, the Pentad/five-day period (Hou) is absent; when Sickness (Bing) occurs, the Pentad/five-day period (Hou) is absent. When you feel wronged, or when you need a hug, the other person can only say "Drink more hot Water (Shui)" on their phone. ② When communicating with Insufficient (Bu Ji): The time difference caused Waxing and Waning (Xiao Xi) to respond slowly, and they had to make an appointment even when making a phone call, allowing Yi (2nd Heavenly Stem) to cause misunderstandings and avoid guessing; ③ Circle Zi Rat (Shu) asynchronous: The other person doesn't understand the topic you're talking about, you've never met the friend they're talking about, and there are fewer and fewer common topics; ④ Too many temptations: When a person is lonely, Pentad / five-day period (Hou), another cold (Han) person appears next to them, making it easy to Yi (2nd Heavenly Stem) Heart (Xin); ⑤ High cost of meetings: Each meeting requires money and time, which puts a lot of pressure on the long-term economy and Essence. ⑥ Uncertainty: It is unknown when the Pentad/five-day period (Hou) will end (Earth (Di), Wei Goat (Wei)). With no hope in sight, it's easy to give up. But there are also those who succeed in different-earth relationships—how did they do it?
(2), Judging from Ba zi (courtesy name), what kind of person is suitable for a different Earth (Di) relationship?
Not everyone is suited to different Earth (Di) relationships; the following Incipient Moment (Ji) types of different Earth (Di) relationships are actually more susceptible to Change/Yi (2nd Heavenly Stem) Persistence leads to even greater happiness: ①【Spouse palace (Fu Qi Gong)/Husband and Wife (Fu Qi) Star Belt "Post Horse - forehead corner travel area (Yi Ma)"】: Post Horse - forehead corner travel area (Yi Ma) The Lord is busy running and walking. Husband and Wife (Fu Qi) Star/Spouse palace (Fu Qi Gong) Sit Post Horse - forehead corner travel area (Yi Ma), or Yin, Shen, Si, Hai (12th Earthly Branch) (Earth (Di) of Four Horse (Ma)) It represents that the spouse is often absent, or that the two Earths (Di) often run away. If the Earth (Di) is different, the Fu (Fu) combined with the Natal chart / Destiny Chart (Ming Pan) information. ②【Natal chart / Destiny Chart (Ming Pan) center (Zhong) "More" and "Less": Heavenly Stems & Earthly Branches (Di Zhi) People who have many relationships are emotionally stable, do not tolerate Yi (2nd Heavenly Stem) turning into Heart (Xin), are loyal to their relationships, and can persevere even if they are different from Earth (Di). ③【Male Destiny (Ming) Wealth stars (Cai Xing) Obtaining Position (De Wei)/FeMale Destiny (Ming) Officer star in Proper position (Dang Wei)】: Husband/Wife star (Qi Xing) In the right position (male) Direct Wealth (Zheng Cai) at Day Branch (Ri Zhi), female Direct Officer (Zheng Guan) at Day Branch (Ri Zhi)), Loyal in relationships, with a strong sense of Family responsibility (Jia Ting), and doesn't act recklessly even in different places; ④ [Natal chart / Destiny Chart (Ming Pan) center (Zhong) Peach Blossom star (Tao Hua) Less]: Peach Blossom star (Tao Hua) Less = less attraction to the opposite sex, less temptation, and the opposite Earth (Di) is not allowed to Yi (2nd Heavenly Stem) has problems; ⑤【Following Structure (Cong Ge)】: People with the Following Structure (Cong Ge) have strong Correspondence (Ying) abilities and can adapt to the Transformation (Hua) of different earths (Di), and the Following Structure (Cong Ge) Once people make up their minds, they become very persistent.
(3), Judging from Ba zi (courtesy name), what kind of person is different from Earth (Di) (Be wary)
The following Incipient Moment (Ji) types of people are highly susceptible to Change/problems arising from different Earth (Di) relationships, so try to avoid different Earth (Di) relationships: ① 【Spouse palace (Fu Qi Gong) being impacted or merged】: Spouse palace (Fu Qi Gong) (Day Branch (Ri Zhi)) being impacted or merged by other Earthly Branches (Di Zhi) "Change" or "combine" represents the spouse's ability to "move" or "be combined," while "different" (Di) represents giving others an opportunity to ride/overcome (Cheng). ②【Peach Blossom star (Tao Hua) Too Many Too prosperous (Wang)】: Natal chart / Destiny Chart (Ming Pan) Peach Blossom star (Tao Hua) Stars (Red Luan - marriage star (Hong Luan), Heavenly Joy (Xi), Salt Pool - Peach Blossom star (Tao Hua), Bathing (Mu Yu)) There are many, and the opposite sex is too good. A person on a different Earth (Di) is lonely and isolated, making it easy for others to take advantage of their weaknesses. ③【Male Destiny (Ming) InDirect Wealth (Zheng Cai) More / FeMale Destiny (Ming) Seven Killings (Qi Sha) More】: InDirect Wealth (Zheng Cai) is Male Destiny (Ming) Seven Killings (Qi Sha) is a side effect of FeMale Destiny (Ming). /Peach Blossom star (Tao Hua), InDirect Wealth (Zheng Cai)/Seven Killings (Qi Sha) Many people are inherently tolerant of Yi (2nd Heavenly Stem) has an external Heart (Xin), and a different Earth (Di) is even more difficult to control; ④【FeMale Destiny (Ming) Hurting Officer (Shang Guan) prosperous (Wang)/Male Destiny (Ming) Parallel and Rob Wealth strong (Bi Jie Wang)】: Hurting Officer (Shang Guan) prosperous (Wang) Women can't stand loneliness and need companionship; Parallel and Rob Wealth strong (Bi Jie Wang) Vital energy (Qi), Joy (Xi) They like to go out and have fun, but they are allowed to Yi (2nd Heavenly Stem) to have an accident; ⑤【Natal chart / Destiny Chart (Ming Pan) center (Zhong) "Combine" Less "Clash" More】: Natal chart / Destiny Chart (Ming Pan) itself Combining too much with too little will lead to emotional instability, and the different Earth (Di) will only amplify the instability. ⑥【Purple Star (Zi Wei) Spouse palace (Fu Qi Gong) Greedy Wolf (Tan Lang)/Chaste Honor (Lian Zhen) + Peach Blossom star (Tao Hua)】: Peach Blossom star (Tao Hua) Too prosperous (Wang), Different Earth (Di) Infidelity (Chu Gui) The rate is extremely high, so we must be vigilant.
(4), Zi Wei Dou Shu (Purple Star Astrology) Looking at Different Earth (Di) Love
Zi Wei Dou Shu (Purple Star Astrology) is particularly accurate in predicting Earth (Di) love: ①【Spouse palace (Fu Qi Gong) rides the star of Travel Palace (Qian Yi Gong)】: Spouse palace (Fu Qi Gong) rides Heavenly Secret (Tian Ji) (moving star), Taiyang (EX-HN5) (Tai Yang) (long journey), Moon / Great Yin (3rd Earthly Branch) (wandering), Vanquisher (Po Jun) (change) The spouse may be far away, or they may frequently travel between the two Earths after marriage; ②【Spouse palace (Fu Qi Gong) Transformation to Prosperity (Hua Lu)/Hua Quan in Travel Palace (Qian Yi Gong)】: The four Transformations (Hua) of Spouse palace (Fu Qi Gong) fly to Travel Palace (Qian Yi Gong), representing Fate/Destiny connection (Yuan Fen) Located far away/outside Earth (Di), it is suitable to find people from outside Earth (Di) or foreigners, and a relationship with someone from another Earth (Di) may actually succeed. ③【Spouse palace (Fu Qi Gong) + Post Horse - forehead corner travel area (Yi Ma)】: Spouse palace (Fu Qi Gong) with Post Horse - forehead corner travel area (Yi Ma) star, or with Heavenly Joy (Xi), Red Luan - marriage star (Hong Luan) Same Palace (Tong Gong), Suitable for different Earth (Di) marriages and relationships; ④【Life Palace (Ming Gong) Riding Heavenly Horse - Auspicious star (Rui Xing)】: From Ji (Earth) If you're someone who can't stay idle and travels frequently, and your partner is also from a different Earth (Di) or travels frequently for work, it would be a good fit. ⑤ [Malefic Stars (Sha Xing) enter Spouse palace (Fu Qi Gong) but there are restrictions]: Originally Spouse palace (Fu Qi Gong) It's not good, but because they are on different earths (Di), they reduce the chances of meeting and arguing, which actually makes their relationship better—some Husband and Wife (Fu Qi)Heaven (Tian)Heaven (Tian) couples argue as soon as they meet, but their relationship gets better after being separated for a while.
(5), 6 Secrets to Successful Love in a Different Earth (Di) (Applicable regardless of whether Destiny (Ming) is good or bad)
For a different-Earth (Di) relationship to succeed, destiny analysis (Ming Li) is the foundation, and acquired (Chi) management is the key: ① 【First: There must be a clear end date】: The different-Earth (Di) relationship cannot last forever; the two of you must have a plan—six months? A year? Three years? When does the Pentad/five-day period (Hou) end? When does the Pentad/five-day period (Hou) end? We must have a common goal; those who see no hope will eventually part ways. ②【Second: High-quality communication per Heaven (Tian)】: It's not about sending "good morning", "busy", or "goodnight", but about sharing life—taking photos, posting videos, and talking about details Jie (Jie), making the other person feel "involved" in your life; Make at least one video call per Heaven (Tian); ③【Third: Meet regularly】: No matter how busy or far away you are, meet at least once every 1-2 months. The intimacy of meeting is something that 1,000 phone calls cannot replace. There should be a sense of ritual in every meeting; don't just stay at the hotel every time you meet. ④【Fourth: Keep your distance from the opposite sex (Li (Fire)】: The thing that the opposite Earth (Di) avoids most is "having friends of the opposite sex". Refuse Extinction (Jue) when you should gather, and keep your distance from Li (Fire) when you should keep your distance from Li (Fire) to give the other person enough security - security is not given by the other person, but by Ji (Earth) (Ji). ⑤【Fifth: Don't argue on the phone】: Wen zi (courtesy name) can't see the expression, can't hear the voice, Vital energy (Qi), if there is a problem, calm down first, and solve it when we meet; The Cold War was a killer of different Earth (Di) relationships; problems should be solved by Heaven (Tian). ⑥【Six (Liu) - Yin Line - Yin Line: Grow together, stay in sync】: Learn new east (Dong) west (Xi) together, take certification exams together, exercise together, and save money together. Both of you are making progress, so you won't be "out of sync" and fall behind.
(6), distance Li (Fire) is never a killer of love; distance Li (Fire) from Heart (Xin) is.
Finally, to my friends who are in a different Earth (Di) relationship, I would like to say something truly heartfelt: ① Don't lend yourself a Mouth (Kou) just because of "different Earth (Di)"—Infidelity (Chu Gui) is Infidelity (Chu Gui). If you don't love someone, then you don't love them. It has nothing to do with different earths (Di). There are plenty of people in the same city who have changed their Infidelity (Chu Gui) to Heart (Xin). ② Don't treat the different Earth (Di) as a "test" either - love doesn't need a test, what it needs is for two people to work together, plan together, and walk together Facing (Xiang) the same Wei Goat (Wei); ③ If you really can't hold on any longer, don't force yourself—sometimes Pentad / five-day period (Hou) letting go isn't about not loving, but about loving yourself Ji (Earth) (Ji) and letting go of the other person; ④ But if you firmly believe that they are the right person, then please persevere a little longer—surviving the Different Earth (Di) is a lifetime; ⑤ Those who succeed in different-earth relationships are not because their Destiny is particularly good, but because both of them are steadfast, loyal, and hardworking enough to endure temporary separation in order to be together. ⑥ Finally, I wish all my friends who are in a different Earth (Di) relationship: May your love be separated by mountains (Shan) and seas, and may it be Average (Ping); May you survive the different earths (Di), hold hands and walk through every Heaven (Tian) for the rest of your lives, and never be separated again.