Name study (Xing Ming Xue): 8 Major Pitfalls to Avoid That Completely Refer to south (Nan): Five-Square Calculation Error /Kangxi stroke count (Kang Xi Bi Hua)/Rare characters (Sheng Pi Zi)/homophone emphasis ming (given name)/bizarre ming (given name) A True Record of Stepping into a Pit | Xuan Xue (mystical studies) Encyclopedia

Many parents specifically look for "given name", "unique", and "written Transformation (Hua)". Rare characters (Sheng Pi Zi) give the child Zi Rat (Shu) name giving (Qi Ming), Thinking that "I only appear to be good at Transformation (Hua) because no one else knows me" is actually digging a big hole for the child, and the child will have to pay the price for these Rare characters (Sheng Pi Zi) for the rest of his life! ①【Harm 1: Applying for documents/registering a bank account = running around exhausted】= Do you think that even electronic Brain (Nao) systems can type out Rare characters (Sheng Pi Zi) nowadays? Big mistake! Different departments have completely different system zi (courtesy name) libraries! The Ministry of Public Security's household registration system has the most comprehensive zi (courtesy name) database, but the zi (courtesy name) databases for banks, social security, medical insurance, housing provident fund Metal (Jin), airports, Fire (Huo) stations, schools, and hospitals are all different! Real-life examples (from Zhihu users): a. "My daughter's name is Wang Di (dí, meaning Overthinking (Si)). Her birth certificate was issued, but when she registered her account in Mouth (Kou), the Pentad/five-day period (Hou) police station system couldn't print out the zi (courtesy name). They asked us to change the given name (Ming Zi), but we disagreed. In the end, it took us three months to find a technician from the municipal bureau to specifically add zi (courtesy name) before we were able to register her in Mouth (Kou)." for example. "My name is Horse (Ma) Yun (yūn, wen wubei = beautiful meaning Overthinking (Si)). When I applied for a bank card, all the banks' systems couldn't display my given name (Ming Zi) and could only use 'Horse (Ma)* Yun' instead. This resulted in my credit card application being rejected forever (because given name (Ming Zi) didn't match my ID card). It took me a month to verify my Alipay actual ming (given name), WeChat withdrawals to my bank card failed countless times, and my housing provident fund Metal (Jin) loan almost failed!" c. "My son, Zi Rat (Shu), is named Li Zhao (art name), meaning the sun and moon reign in the sky, dominating Qi/Vital energy (Qi), right?). When he registered for the college entrance examination, ming (given name) was in the Pentad/five-day period (Hou)." The National Education Examinations Authority's system can't print this zi (courtesy name), so we can only write it by hand and stamp it. Our whole family has been worried about the initial Moment for months, afraid it will affect our college entrance examination admission! ②[Hazard 2: Airport security check/high-speed rail ticket check = Neighboring (Bi) Others spend 3 times more time] = 80% of Rare characters (Sheng Pi Zi) cannot be recognized at airport self-service check-in and high-speed rail self-service ticket gates! You can only go the manual Way, queuing, explaining to the staff, writing registration by hand, and verifying your identity. What someone else can do with 2 minutes of Bell (Zhong), you can do with 10 minutes of Bell (Zhong) or even half an hour! When you're rushing to catch a plane or high-speed train, you should hurry up and go! Real-life example: "My name is Zhang Yan (yǎn, Dragon (Long) in Heaven (Tian), also a zi (courtesy name) created by Liu Yan, The Emperor (Huang Di) of The Fifth Dynasty of The south (Nan) Han Dynasty)." Every time I fly, self-service check-in is a 100% failure. I have to go to the counter to do it manually, and I also have to check the Pentad/five-day period (Hou) separately during security, which often leads to me almost missing my flight! Once, when I was on a business trip to Shenzhen, I was deducted 40 points from security because the "given name (Ming Zi)" system couldn't recognize it. Bell (Zhong) questioned me, and I almost missed an important meeting! ③【Harm Three: Social Ego (Zi Wo) Introduction = Late-stage embarrassing cancer, others will always mispronounce your given name (Ming Zi)】= Rare characters (Sheng Pi Zi) exist to make others "unable to pronounce"! Every time Ego (Zi Wo) introduces you, you have to say, "My name is XX, and the X in XX (and then explain how to spell Half Heaven (Tian))". If someone mispronounces your given name (Ming Zi), you will be embarrassed. Earth (Di) will correct you, and the other person will be embarrassed too. Your first impression will be greatly diminished! Real-life example: "My name is Liu Yu (yù, meaning Overthinking (Si), Xun Yu's yu). From childhood to adulthood, 99 out of 100 teachers pronounced my name (Ming Zi) as 'Liu or' the first time they called me. Then I stood up and corrected myself, 'Teacher, my name is Liu Yu (yù),' and the whole class laughed, so embarrassed I wanted to crawl into the Earth (Di)! Later, when I was introducing the Pentad/five-day period (Hou), I simply said, 'My name is Liu Yu, Xun Yu's yu, pronounced yù. If you don't know how to write 'or,' write 'or' with two strokes.' Every time I have to explain, I'm tired!" Now that I'm working, my colleagues all call me "Xiao Liu" or "that guy who can't pronounce given name (Ming Zi)." Even I can't pronounce given name (Ming Zi). How can I get a promotion and a raise?! ④ [Hazard Four: School Studies/Exams = The child's given name (Ming Zi) is written incorrectly.] = Rare characters (Sheng Pi Zi) There are generally a lot of strokes! Da (48 strokes), Bian (39 strokes), Yu (32 strokes), Cuan (30 strokes), (30 strokes), (30 strokes)... The child Zi Rat (Shu) just started school, writing from Ji (Earth) (Ji) given name (Ming Zi) If you want to write 1 point for Bell (Zhong), the other students have already finished the 3Dao (the Way) problem, but he hasn't finished writing given name (Ming Zi) yet! The Pentad/five-day period (Hou) during exams is an even greater waste of valuable time! Moreover, many children in first and second grade don't spell their given name (Ming Zi) correctly, which severely damages their self-confidence and Heart (Xin)! Real-life example (Weibo trending topic): "Heaven (Tian), the first-grade girl at the beginning of the semester, cried and said she didn't want to write anymore because her given name (Ming Zi) had 30 strokes! Her name was 'Cuan Yixi,' and the three zi (courtesy name) totaled almost 70 strokes! During the exam, other children had already started working on __cn_ordinal_2_page__, and she hadn't finished writing her given name (Ming Zi) yet!" ⑤ [Hazard 5: Submitting a resume while looking for a job = HR skips directly = 90% of opportunities missed] = HR spends 5-10 seconds reviewing a resume (Neutral/Average (Ping))! If HR sees your given name (Ming Zi), __CN_ORDINAL_1_ anti-Correspondence (Ying) is "What does this zi (courtesy name) pronounce?" If you don't know how to pronounce it, what if you mispronounce Pentad / five-day period (Hou) during the meeting? It's embarrassing. Forget it, skip it! You'll lose your interview opportunity! Real-life example (recounted by a hiring manager): "I've been working in HR for 10 years. When I received a resume with 'Rare characters (Sheng Pi Zi)' and 'given name (Ming Zi),' I skipped 90% of it. It wasn't discrimination; firstly, I was afraid of embarrassing myself by mispronouncing it, and secondly, I subconsciously felt that 'given name (Ming Zi)' used 'Rare characters (Sheng Pi Zi)'." People with Closeness/Neighboring (Bi) personalities may be more withdrawn, unconventional, and difficult to communicate with. Of course, this is prejudice, but prejudice is real, and you can't explain it to every HR professional. ⑥【Rare characters (Sheng Pi Zi) black (Hei) ming (given name) Single (hereinafter zi (courtesy name) Extinction (Jue) Do not use it in given name (Ming Zi)! = Sorted by common usage: Da (these are the most commonly used "uncommon but not too uncommon" zi (courtesy name) in name giving (Qi Ming). If you really want to use them, go to the bank, police station, and social security bureau first to make sure the system can print them all out, otherwise don't use them!); ⑦【Pitfall Avoidance Solution = Want something unique but don't want to cause trouble? 3 clever tricks】=a. Use "uncommonly used Meaning/Implication (Han Yi) in commonly used zi (courtesy name)" = Closeness/Neighboring (Bi), such as "and" zi (courtesy name). Everyone knows it, but there are many meanings/implications (Han Yi) (harmony, gentleness, harmony with poetry, harmony with music)., Comparison-Use method (Bi Yong) Rare characters (Sheng Pi Zi) has more text Transformation (Hua); for example.

Using a "special combination of commonly used zi (courtesy name)" = Neighboring (Bi), such as "Jianxian", "Overthinking (Si) Qi" (Jianxian Overthinking (Si) Qi), "Mu Chen Dragon (Long)", and "Star north (Bei)", zi (courtesy name) are all commonly used zi (courtesy name). However, when combined, they are unique, meaningful, and do not emphasize ming (given name); c. Use "second most common zi (courtesy name) (not Rare characters (Sheng Pi Zi))" as appropriate. =Neighboring (Bi) Names like "Yi" (yī, beautiful, Fei Yi's Yi, second most commonly used; I don't know many people but the system can type them out, even banks and social security contributions are fine), "Heng" (héng, beautiful jade, second most commonly used), "Jun" (jùn, beautiful jade, second most commonly used), "Shu" (shū, beautiful woman, second most commonly used), and "Xiao" (xiǎo, small bamboo Zi Rat (Shu), second most commonly used). These zi (courtesy name) are not uncommon; the system can generally type them out. Moreover, Neighboring (Bi) "Zi Rat (Shu)xuan/zihan" is much more unique!

The dangers of homophone ambiguity pitfalls: In the previous article, phonetic rhythm (Yin Lü) Aesthetics, we discussed the 5-step self-examination method. Here, as the third of the 8 pitfalls in Name study (Xing Ming Xue), we will add 10 classic negative cases and a more concise 3-step self-examination method to ensure that every parent can avoid them! ①【10 Classic Negative Cases = Each one is a lesson in Blood (Xue) tears, Extinction (Jue) should not repeat the same mistake!】= Classic 1: Du Ziteng / Du Zi Rat (Shu)teng = stomach Zi Rat (Shu)pain! (Du + Zi Rat (Shu) / Purple + Pain / Teng = 100% center (Zhong). Parents surnamed Du must remember this!) Classic 2: Shizhen Incense (Xiang) = Shizhen Incense (Xiang)! (Shi + Zhen / Zhen / Zheng + Incense (Xiang) / Xiang = Extinction (Jue) should not be used! The surname Shi can be paired with "Shi Tiesheng" → Shi + Tie + Sheng = Front, how wonderful!); Classic 3: Fan Tong/Fan Jian = Good-for-nothing/Shameless! (The surname Fan avoids "Tong/Jian"! Fan can be called "Fan Zhongyan" → Duke Fan Wenzheng, how wonderful!); Classic 4: Qin Shousheng = Beast Life! (Qin + Shou / Shou + Sheng = Extinction (Jue)) To avoid! Qin can be called "Qin Shi Huang" → Ba Vital energy (Qi), but it is not recommended to use The Emperor (Huang Di)ming (given name), "Qin Guan") →Lyricist, how wonderful!); Classic 5: Zhu Yiqun / Zhu You should=Pig (Zhu) a group / Pig (Zhu) is fat again! (The surname Zhu should avoid "Yi/Yi+Qun" and "You/You+should/Fei"! Zhu can be called "Zhu Yuanzhang" → The Emperor (Huang Di)ming (given name), but it is still not recommended. "Zhu Ziqing" → Wenren, how wonderful!); Classic 6: Straighten thick roots = heels! (Jiao + Thick + Root / Geng = Do not use! Jiao can be called "Jiao Ruo Fright (Jing) Dragon (Long)" → idiom, but four zi (courtesy name) are also fine, or "Jiao Dayu" → ming (given name) person, which is good!); Classic 7: Yang Dianfeng / Yang Wei = Sheep (Yang) Epilepsy / Yang Impotence! (Yang + Peak/Epilepsy = 100% laughed at! Yang + Wei = a classic homophone. Although many people use it, would you be willing to be joked about by your classmates for a lifetime? Yang can be called "Yang Jiang" → Writer, how wonderful!); Classic 8: Liu Chan/Liu Mang = Abortion/Rogue! (Liu + Chan/Mang = Extinction (Jue) is avoided! Liu can be called "Liu Bang" → The Emperor (Huang Di), "Liu Yuxi" → Poet, how wonderful!); Classic 9: Wu Qian/Wu Fu/Wu De/Wu Cai/Wu Li = No money/No blessing/No virtue/No talent/No gift! (Wu = none, the antonym of the surname "King of Pits"! Wu + any positive word = antonym! Wu must use double negations or homophones like "Wu Mochou,"Wu You (10th Earthly Branch))," and "Wu Xie Ke Ji"!); Classic 10: Mei Liang's Heart (Xin) / Jia Zhengjing = Mei Liang's Heart (Xin) / Fake Zhengjing! (Mei = no, Jia = fake, just like the surname Wu, they are antonyms! You must use double negatives/idioms to pronounce them: "Mei Blossoms Five Blessings", "Mei Zheng spring (Chun)", "Jia Sizhen", "Jia Yong Zheng Xian"!); ②【Why are homophones overlooked? 3 Neo-Confucian blind spots of Heart (Xin)】=Blind spot 1: "Only looking at zi (courtesy name), not reading it out"=Many parents name giving (Qi Ming) only look at the character meaning (Zi Yi) on paper, not reading it out. Looking at the three zi (courtesy name) of "Du Ziteng", wisteria = Purple (Zi Se) vines, how beautiful! But I was stunned when I read it aloud; Blind spot 2: "Mandarin, without considering dialect" = Many given names (Ming Zi) have no problem speaking Mandarin, but the dialect has a homophone for Destiny (Ming)! Neighboring (Bi) such as "yellow (Huang)shulang" → Mandarin is fine, but in Cantonese it is pronounced "yellow (Huang)Rat (Shu)lang" (wong syu long→wong syu long = really similar!); "Liao Zhiyuan" → Mandarin is fine, but in Sichuan dialect it's pronounced "Urine Zhiyuan" (liào zhì yuǎn = liào = urine!); Blind spot 3: "Just look at the present, don't consider Wei Goat (Wei) as an internet meme" = given name (Ming Zi), which is fine now, may become a homophone for a trending internet word in 5 or 10 years! Neighboring (Bi) Before 2010, "Xiang" meant flying. Overthinking (Si), no one would have thought that there was something wrong with "shi zhen Incense (Xiang)". But after "Xiang = shit" became an internet meme in 2012, "zhen Incense (Xiang)" became "real Incense (Xiang)" and "real shit"! This can't be completely predicted, but try to avoid words like "related to food/poop/urine/physiology/strong/supporting (Xiang)"! ③【3-step homophone self-check method = 3 points Bell (Zhong) solved, 100% avoid it!】=Step 1:【Input method association test = most effective!】=Open and search for Dog (Gou)/Baidu input method (be sure to use the most commonly used input method, not niche ones), enter the "full spelling" of your given name (Ming Zi). Note: enter each zi (courtesy name) together, do not select one zi (courtesy name) and one zi (courtesy name)! Check if any of the words that come up with the first 10 associations are bad! Example: Enter "shizhenxiang" → Association 1. Shi Zhen Incense (Xiang) 2. Incense (Xiang) → center (Zhong) move! Enter "duziteng" → Association 1. stomach Zi Rat (Shu) pain 2. Du Zi Rat (Shu) Teng → center (Zhong) Request! Enter "wúqián" → Association 1. No money 2. Wu Qian → center (Zhong) recruitment!; Step 2: [Read the whole family's dialect once = Cover the blind spot 2] = Have the elders in the family pronounce the child's given name (Ming Zi) Zi Rat (Shu) in their hometown dialect (at least two dialects) and ask if there are any bad associations? Especially in Cantonese-speaking areas, Fujian south (Nan) dialect areas, Sichuan dialect areas, and east (Dong) north (Bei) dialect areas, there are a lot of homophones in their dialects! Step 3: [Search for "X surname + good given name (Ming Zi) homophone" + "Xgiven name (Ming Zi) joke" on a search engine = cover blind spot 3] = Search for "good given name (Ming Zi) homophone of the surname Du" on Baidu → See if anyone has already fallen into this trap; Search for "Shi Zhen Incense (Xiang) jokes" → see if there are any "Zi Rat (Shu)" jokes. If so, don't use them! After following these three steps, the homophone problem will be completely solved!

name giving (Qi Ming) is most afraid of "following the Heart (Xin) reason"! Ten years ago, "Zi Rat (Shu) Xuan/Hao Ran/Yu Lake (Ze)" was popular, now "Zi Han/Yi Nuo/Mu Chen Dragon (Long)" is popular, the hit song ming (given name) from 5 years ago has now become a "kindergarten hit", and 10 years later it will become Earth (Di) like "Jianguo/Hongmei in the 80s"! ① [Transcript of the post-2020 viral ming (given name) surname rate = Real data from the Ministry of Public Security Possessing (Ju)] = The "National Surname ming (given name) Report" released by the Ministry of Public Security in 2025 shows that newborns born in 2020-2025 center (Zhong), a. Boys' bestseller ming (given name)Top10=1. Mu Chen Dragon (Long) 2. Zixuan 3. Haoyu 4. Haoran 5. Yi Nuo 6. Zi Rat (Shu)Ink (Mo) 7. Space 8. Haoxuan 9. Mu Yang 10. Yu Lake (Ze) → These 10 given names (Ming Zi) account for 23% of boy names (Nan Hai Ming Zi)! In other words, in both Neutral and Average (Ping), one in four boys is named one of these 10 given Names (Ming Zi)! for example. Girls' bestseller ming (given name)Top10=1. Zihan 2. Yi Nuo 3. Xin Yi 4. Yutong 5. Yuxi 6. Muxi 7. Ruoxi 8. Zixuan 9. Overthinking (Si) 10. Yutong → These 10 given names (Ming Zi) account for 27% of girl names (Nü Hai Ming Zi)! Average (Ping): One in every 3-4 girls is named one of these 10 given names (Ming Zi)! ②[Real Case: A Kindergarten Opens a school name / formal name (Da Ming) Album → 10 Zi Hans!] = In September 2025, a netizen @KindergartenTeacherZhang posted a given name album from the Ji (Earth) (Ji)center (Zhong) class: a total of 32 children Zi Rat (Shu). Its center (Zhong) = 3 Zihan, 2 Zixuan, 3 Zi Rat (Shu)xuan, 2 Mu Chen Dragon (Long), 3 Yinuo → a total of 13 children. Zi Rat (Shu) is a popular ming (given name)! When clicking on ming (given name), Pentad / five-day period (Hou): "Zihan! → Three little girls stand up together!"Teacher, my name is Li Zihan,"My name is Wang Zihan,"My name is Zhang Zihan!" The teacher was stunned! ③ [Why should the popular ming (given name) be avoided? 4 long-term harms] = Harm 1: [Lack of distinctiveness = lack of personality] = There are 5 Zihans in the class. The teacher can't remember your child's Zi Rat (Shu) and can only call him "Zihan with long hair,"Zihan with Eyes," or "Zihan with slightly chubby". Children Zi Rat (Shu) do not have a "unique sense of identity" from a young age; Harm 2: [10 years later, it instantly changes to "Earth (Di)ming (given name)" = too strong a sense of the era] = Think about the current "founding of the nation/aid to Korea/Cultural Revolution/Hongmei/Shufen". ming (given name) was also a hit on 5Six (Liu) - Yin Line - Yin Line in the 1910s. Doesn't it sound a strong sense of the era now? Today's "Zihan/Mu Chen Dragon (Long)", 10 or 20 years from now, your child Zi Rat (Shu) will be working at 30, and his colleagues will call him "Manager Zihan" or "Director Mu Chen Dragon (Long)". Wouldn't that be as awkward as calling him "Manager Jianguo" or "Director Hongmei" now? Harm 3: [Troublesome social addresses = Too much emphasis on given names] = There are three "Zihans" in the company, who can only be called "Big Zihan,"Little Zihan," and "Finance Zihan." Even delivery drivers have to ask, "Which Zihan are you? Which Mu Chen Dragon (Long)?" Harm 4: [giving the first impression that "Parents (Fu Mu) doesn't use Heart (Xin)"] = When others hear your child Zi Rat (Shu) call the popular ming (given name), their first anti-Correspondence (Ying) is "Oh, it was copied from the internet, right? It was mass-generated by AI, right?", and they think that Parents (Fu Mu) name giving (Qi Ming) doesn't use Heart (Xin). Although this is prejudice, prejudice really exists; ④ [AIname giving (Qi Ming) Batch Generated Pitfalls = 90% Are Popular ming (given name) Collages] = Many parents now use AIname giving (Qi Ming) websites/apps to batch generate given name (Ming Zi) for convenience, and 90% are popular ming (given name) collages. The permutations of: Zi + Han / Xuan / Xuan, Mu + Chen Dragon (Long) / Yang / Xi, Yi + Nuo / Ran / Ming, Yu + Lake (Ze) / Chen Dragon (Long) → It looks like there are hundreds of given names (Ming Zi) for Incipient Moment (Ji). It's actually just ten Incipient moments (Ji) and zi (courtesy name) spelled back and forth, nothing new! Moreover, AIname giving (Qi Ming) does not consider your family taboos, dialect homophones, Ba zi (courtesy name) Five Elements (Wu Xing) at all (although many AIs say they do, it's all nonsense). ⑤ [Pitfall avoidance plan = 5 steps to create a unique given name (Ming Zi) that doesn't emphasize ming (given name)] = a. Avoid the Ministry of Public Security's top 50 most popular products (you can find them online by searching for "2025 newborn most popular products (given name)"), and at least avoid the top 10; for example. Using the combination of "poetic allusions + surname (Xing Shi)" name giving (Qi Ming)zi (courtesy name), the zi (courtesy name) in the poem So many, when combined, the rate of given names is extremely low (Neighboring (Bi), such as the surname Wang + "Jianxian Overthinking (Si)qi" → Wang Overthinking (Si)qi, Neighboring (Bi)). Wang Wei and Wang Lei are much more unique. c. After setting up a given name (Ming Zi), go to the "ming (given name) Plagiarism Check" function (free!) of the "Ministry of Public Security Internet plus Government Service Neutral/Average (Ping) Platform" to check how many duplicate ming (given name) names there are nationwide. If there are more than 1000 duplicate ming (given name) names, change them (if there are more than 100 duplicate ming (given name) names in small cities, change them). d. Go to Baidu/Weibo/Xiaohongshu and search for your given name (Ming Zi) to see if any internet celebrities/influencers/influencers are already using it. If it's already Fire (Huo), then don't use it. e. Appropriately use "double surname + double ming (given name)" Four-character name (Si Zi Ming), heavy ming (given name) rate Incipient Moment (Ji) It is almost 0 (Li Wang Yueran, Chen Lin Wanqing), which is both unique and meaningful.

Name study (Xing Ming Xue) has strict "gender differences". Male and female name giving (Qi Ming) mathematics cannot be mixed. This is an ironclad rule that has been verified by Incipient Moment (Ji) 100,000 given name (Ming Zi) and is not gender discrimination! ① [Fortune (Yun) for girls who are lonely: 21/23/26/28/29/33/39 = Extinction (Jue) is prohibited!] = These 7 numbers are Fortune (Yun) for leaders/Fortune (Yun) for wisdom, and for men = Da Ji (Earth), indicating success in one's career; For women = Great inauspiciousness (Da Xiong), Widow Fortune (Yun)/Harming husband (Ke Fu) Fortune (Yun)/UnHappy marriage (Hun Yin Mei Man)! Principle: center (Zhong) The ancient traditional Chinese version Transformation (Hua) emphasizes "Yin Yang harmony (Yin Yang Tiao He)". Male Yang, main outside, main business; Feminine Yin, Lord Inner, Lord Family (Jia Ting). If the female given name (Ming Zi) uses the leader Fortune (Yun) (Yang Gangzhi's Qi/Vital energy (Qi) is too strong), then "Yin excess Yang DecLine (Yao)", Yin-Yang (Yin Yang) Imbalance leads to: an overly rigid, stubborn, and domineering personality; difficulty finding a partner due to weak husbandly relationships; a harmful husband (Ke Fu) after marriage; frequent illnesses (Bing); career setbacks or even early death; an UnHappy marriage (Hun Yin Mei Man); frequent arguments; extramarital affairs (Li (Fire) marriages; and ChildRen (Water) (Ren). It's difficult to get pregnant due to weak destiny. ChildRen (Water) (Ren) are disobedient. They may succeed in their careers, but their Family (Jia Ting) breaks down and they grow old alone for life. 7 Lonely Fortune (Yun) Mathematics Detailed explanation (Xiang Jie) (Previous article: Girl naming (given name)) (As mentioned earlier, I'll reiterate this here to avoid pitfalls): a. Numerology 21 (Shu Li Er Shi Yi) = Bright Moon MidHeaven (Tian) = Lonely Fortune (Yun) NO.1! Men's career Da Ji (Earth), Women's wife usurping her husband's rights UnHappy marriage (Hun Yin Mei Man) Li (Fire) Widowhood!; for example. Numerology 23 (Shu Li Er Shi San) = Magnificent and Daring = Lonely Fortune (Yun) NO.2! For men, east (Dong) represents a rise in career glory; for women, Fortune (Yun) represents marital turmoil and Harming husband (Ke Fu) represents widowhood! c. Numerology 26 (Shu Li Er Shi Liu) = Becoming Strange = Lonely Fortune (Yun) NO.3! The number of heroes who become strange, the waves of the Family (Jia Ting) and Wind (Feng), the marriage is unstable, the woman uses Great inauspiciousness (Da Xiong)!; d. Numerology 28 (Shu Li Er Shi Ba) = Wide Water (Shui) Duckweed = Lonely Fortune (Yun) NO.4 + One of the Four Short life Numbers (Duan Ming Shu)! Hao Vital energy (Qi) Birth Li (Fire) Loneliness Li (Fire) Separation, both men and women InAuspicious (Ji) Especially women UnHappy marriage (Hun Yin Mei Man) Birth Li (Fire) Death (Si) Don't be lonely and short-lived! e. Numerology 29 (Shu Li Er Shi Jiu) = Wisdom = Loneliness Fortune (Yun) NO.5! Strategizing and accumulating excellent financial resources to build a family and career; Auspicious (Ji) for men: Wealth, Fortune (Yun); InAuspicious (Ji) for women: loneliness, Fortune (Yun), Wind (Feng): UnHappy marriage (Hun Yin Mei Man), Harming husband (Ke Fu)! f. Numerology 33 (Shu Li San Shi San) = Rising Sun Heaven (Tian) = Lonely Fortune (Yun) NO.6! Rising Sun Celestial Weight - Big Dipper 4 (Tian Quan) Wei Xian Da Gong Cheng ming (given name) Therefore, men use Da Ji (Earth) Career Extremely prosperous (Wang), female Great inauspiciousness (Da Xiong) lonely Fortune (Yun), loneliness, Harming husband (Ke Fu), UnHappy marriage (Hun Yin Mei Man), short lifespan (Fire (Huo), Qi/Vital energy (Qi), too prosperous (Wang), Heart (Xin), Brain (Nao), Blood (Xue), problem! Mr. Numerology 39 (Shu Li San Shi Jiu) = Wealth, Nobility, Glory = Loneliness Fortune (Yun) NO.7! It symbolizes wealth, honor, glory, wisdom, and abundant wealth. Auspicious (Ji) is used for men to signify great wealth and status, while Auspicious (Ji) is used for women. InAuspicious (Ji), loneliness, Fortune (Yun), UnHappy marriage (Hun Yin Mei Man), Wind (Feng), to break the family! ②[Real Case = Girl's Blood (Xue) Tears Lesson Using Loneliness Fortune (Yun) Mathematics (from Douban name changing (Gai Ming) Group)] = Case A (28-year-old female, Personality GrId (Ben Wo) 21): "My name is Li Mingjie (Li 7 + Ming 8 = Personality GrId (Ben Wo) 15? No, replace it: My name is Zhang Yue (Zhang 7? No, Zhang Kangxi 11 strokes + Yue 11 strokes = Personality GrId (Ben Wo) 22 No, oh, I'm looking for a real case of Personality GrId (Ben Wo) 21: Zhihu user @Xiaokui: "My name is Wang zi (courtesy name) next to = Wood (Mu) 4 + Xin (Metal) (Xin) 7 = 11? Wang 4 + Zi 11 = Personality GrId (Ben Wo) 15 No, oh, the example uses "My name is Chen Shuang (Chen Kangxi 16 strokes + Shuang 11 strokes = 16 + 5? Oh Shuang Kangxi 11 strokes? Never mind, just look at the real feedback)": "I was born in 1998, given name (Ming Zi) Personality GrId (Ben Wo) 21. I've always had a boyish Personality, very strong-willed, always striving to be number one. I'm 28 and have never been in a relationship for more than half a year. Every boyfriend says I'm too assertive, making it hard for them to breathe. Now my family is Urging me to get married (Cui Hun), I really can't find a partner... I'm already preparing to change my name (Gai Ming)..." Case B (35-year-old female, Personality GrId (Ben Wo)33): "My name is Li Xuri... no, 35-year-old female, married for 5 years, Li (Fire) married for 3 years. My ex-husband has a chronic Illness (Bing) and has been staying at home for a long time. My career has also been in decline. I earn over 30,000 yuan a month as a salesperson at Ji (Earth) (Ji). My family is in trouble. After my ex-husband's Illness (Bing), my Spleen (Pi)Qi/Vital energy (Qi) is extremely poor. Heaven (Tian) Heaven (Tian)" They argued, and in the end Li (Fire) got married. Later, after testing given name (Ming Zi), I found out Dao (the Way). My Personality GrId (Ben Wo) 33 (Lonely Fortune (Yun) + Too Tough), Harming husband (Ke Fu)... Now I really believe it"; ③ [Girl's Safety Numerology Recommendation = 15/16/24/25/31/32/35 = Most prosperous (Wang) Home is the safest] = First choice for 15 years of good fortune and longevity. 16 Generous Virtue Carrying All Things (Hou De Zai Wu) prosperous (Wang) Family, 24 Wealth Fortune (Yun) Excellent white (Bai) for starting from scratch, 25 for talented academics and career, 31 for intelligent and courageous career and Family (Jia Ting) for double success (31 is suitable for girls, they won't be lonely! Gentle leader Fortune (Yun)), 32 for Treasure Horse (Ma) Metal (Jin) Saddle Noble One (Gui Ren) for multiple help, 35 for high-rise buildings looking at the moon, the best numerology for women! ④【Boy naming (given name) Yi (2nd Heavenly Stem) = a bunch of strong Metal (Jin) [Fierce Fire (Huo) = actually harms your health and causes trouble] = Boy naming (given name) should not go to extremes!

Many parents believe that boys need to be strong and aggressive. given names (Ming Zi) are full of zi (courtesy name) like "Biao, Meng, Ba, Qiang, Gang, Lie, Dragon (Long), Tiger (Hu), Bao, Yan, Yi, Xin, Lei," and mathematically they are all Metal (Jin) Fire (Huo) (7/8 Metal (Jin), 3/4 Fire (Huo). The result is: impulsive personality Yi (2nd Heavenly Stem) Anger (Nu), Spleen (Pi) Vital energy (Qi). Irritable, easy to fight at the slightest disagreement, allowing Change/Yi (2nd Heavenly Stem) to cause trouble, lawsuits, health accidents (traffic accidents, injuries in fights), UnHappy marriage (Hun Yin Mei Man), domestic violence, and dramatic career ups and downs (because they are too impatient and unstable). Real-life example: A man, born in 2002, named "Dragon (Long) Yanxin" → Dragon (Long) (Fire (Huo)) Yan (three Fire (Huo)) Xin (Metal) (Xin)), Fire restricts Metal (Jin), Metal (Jin) Fire (Huo) In 2020, he was seriously injured in a fight and almost lost his Destiny (Ming). Later, he was tested... given name (Ming Zi) = Three Talents configuration (San Cai Pei Zhi) Fire (Huo) Fire (Huo) Metal (Jin) (Great inauspiciousness (Da Xiong), Fire restricts Metal (Jin)), Personality GrId (Ben Wo) 33 (too strong), Earth GrId (Ben Wo) 48 (alright), Total GrId (Ben Wo) 56 (InAuspicious (Ji)), too strong! ⑤ [boy names (Nan Hai Ming Zi) = Average (Ping) = giving (Qi Ming) = Gentle (Zhong) = True Man] = boy names (Nan Hai Ming Zi) To achieve "3 points firmness + 7 points softness" or "5 points firmness + 5 points softness," the real thing is to have a soft center (Zhong)! Neighboring (Bi) For example, "Li Overthinking (Si) distant" = Overthinking (Si) (gentle, Overthinking (Si) examination) + distant (hard, far great ambition Facing (Xiang)) = Firm and YielDing (4th Heavenly Stem) and help; "Wang Zihan" = zi (courtesy name)) + Han (gentle, tolerant, but if it's too gentle, you can add a strong zi (courtesy name): "Wang Zifeng" = zi Rou + Feng Gang = Average (Ping) balance!); Numerologically speaking: The leader Fortune (Yun) (21/23/31/33) combined with stable numbers like 15/16/32/35 should not all be the leader Fortune (Yun)! Three Talents - heaven earth man (San Cai) Don't use all Metal (Jin) and all Fire (Huo) (Metal (Jin) Metal (Jin) Metal (Jin) / Fire (Huo) Fire (Huo) Fire (Huo) are both too harsh), using "Wood-Fire-Earth (Di), Metal (Jin)Earth (Di)Earth (Di), Earth (Di)Earth (Di)Fire (Huo)" these generating cycle (Xiang Sheng)Average (Ping) Three Talents - heaven earth man (San Cai). Remember the ironclad rule of gender differences: girls avoid Loneliness numbers (Gu Gua Shu) and boys avoid extremes, and you're halfway there!

Many parents have only a superficial understanding of name giving (Qi Ming), and after hearing online sayings such as "filling in what's missing" and "Horse (Ma) needs to eat grass," they randomly add Five Elements (Wu Xing) and Zodiac/Animal signs (Sheng Xiao). Radicals have the opposite effect! ①【Pitfall 1: Ba zi (courtesy name) fills in whatever is missing = 90% of people make this mistake!】= This is the biggest misconception in Ba zi (courtesy name) destiny analysis (Ming Li)! Without exception! Ba zi (courtesy name) doesn't "fill in what's missing," but rather "fill in whatever is needed (Joy (Xi) Use spirit / Focus Line (Yao)"! For example, Zi Rat (Shu): a boy Ba zi (courtesy name): Jia (1st Heavenly Stem) Wu Horse (Ma) Bing (3rd Heavenly Stem) Zi Rat (Shu) Ding (4th Heavenly Stem) Chou Ox (Niu) Xin (Metal) (Xin) Chou Ox (Niu) → Ding Fire (Huo) Day Master (Ri Chen) (belonging to Fire (Huo)), Ba zi (courtesy name) contains 1 Wood (Mu), 3 Fire (Huo), 2 Earth (Di), 2 Metal (Jin), 0 Water (Shui) → According to the theory that what is lacking is replenished = if you lack Water (Shui), you need to replenish Water (Shui)! But in reality: Ding Fire (Huo) was born in the month of Zi Rat (Shu) (winter (Dong) Heaven (Tian) Water (Shui) prosperous (Wang)), although Ba zi (courtesy name) Water (Shui) is not visible (hidden in Zi Rat (Shu)Chou Ox (Niu)), but Monthly ordinance (Yue Ling) is Water (Shui), Ding Fire (Huo). Weak, requires Wood (Mu) (Fire (Huo)) Fire (Huo) Generating and supporting (Sheng Fu) Day Master (Ri Chen) for Joy (Xi) Use spirit / Focus Line (Yao)! Water (Shui) represents Fire (Huo) (Officer and Killings (Guan Sha)) and Enemy Spirit (Shen)! If you replenish what's missing and replenish Water (Shui), it's like pouring cold Water (Shui) on the already weak Ding Fire (Huo), making it weaker and weaker! The child Zi Rat (Shu) is physically weak and has many sicknesses (Bing), and his studies and career are not going well! Real-life case: A girl with Five Elements missing Metal (Jin), whose parents frantically supplemented her with Metal (Jin), was given the name (Ming Zi) "Xinxin" (6 Metal (Jin)! As a result, Ba zi (courtesy name) Day Master (Ri Chen) is Wood (Mu), and Metal (Jin) is Wood (Mu). Adding Metal (Jin) is too much = Metal (Jin) Wood (Mu) During the battle, the girl was frail, often sickly, withdrawn, and frequently bullied from a young age. Later, she consulted a master who truly understood Ba zi (courtesy name), who said that given name (Ming Zi) corrected the mistake. Joy (Xi) Use spirit / Focus Line (Yao), Correspondence (Ying) add Water (Shui) (Water generates Wood (Mu)) instead of Metal (Jin) (Metal restricts Wood (Mu)), name changing (Gai Ming) It gradually got better later! ②[Pitfall 2: Five Elements (Wu Xing) made up for it] =excess is as bad as deficiency (Guo You Bu Ji), things reverse when extreme (Wu Ji Bi Fan)!】 =Even if Five Elements (Wu Xing) is Joy (Xi) Use spirit / Focus Line (Yao), We can't overdo it! excess is as bad as deficiency (Guo You Bu Ji)! Neighboring (Bi) For example: a. Ba zi (courtesy name) Joy (Xi) Fire (Huo) → add 1-2 zi (courtesy name) belonging to Fire (Huo) That's enough. Don't call it "Yanyan Yanyi" (4 Fire (Huo)!). Fire (Huo) is too prosperous (Wang) = impatient, Heart (Xin) Blood (Xue) represents Sickness (Bing), Spleen (Pi) Vital energy (Qi) represents irritability; for example. Ba zi (courtesy name) Joy (Xi) Metal (Jin) → supplement 1-2 zi (courtesy name) of the genus Metal (Jin), Don't call it "XinXin Metal (Jin)qi" (a bunch of Metal (Jin)!), Metal (Jin) is too prosperous (Wang) = tough personality, Yi (2nd Heavenly Stem) attracts lawsuits, Lung (Fei) and Breathing (Hu Xi) Dao (the Way) are not good; c. Ba zi (courtesy name) Joy (Xi) Water (Shui) → add 1-2 zi (courtesy name) belonging to Water (Shui), Don't call it "ocean, river, lake" (5 Water (Shui)!), Water (Shui) is too prosperous (Wang) = fickle personality, poor urinary system, unstable marriage; d. Ba zi (courtesy name) Joy (Xi) Wood (Mu) → add 1-2 zi (courtesy name) belonging to Wood (Mu), Don't call it "forest Wood (Mu) forest" (a bunch of Wood (Mu)!), Wood (Mu) is too prosperous (Wang) = stubborn personality, Liver (Gan) GallBladder (Pang Guang) is not good; e. Ba zi (courtesy name) Joy (Xi) Earth (Di) → Add 1-2 zi (courtesy name) belonging to Earth (Di), not "Earth (Di) Earth (Di) Guiyao" (a bunch of Earth (Di)!), Earth (Di) Too prosperous (Wang) = foolish personality, bad Spleen (Pi) Stomach (Wei); Correct Neighboring (Bi) Example: Joy (Xi) Use spirit / Focus Line (Yao) Five Elements (Wu Xing) accounts for 40%-60% of given name (Ming Zi), other Five Elements Balance (Wu Xing Ping Heng) When matching, don't completely replenish it. Joy (Xi) Use spirit / Focus Line (Yao)! ③【Pit 3: Animal sign (Sheng Xiao) Radical Superstition = Animal sign (Sheng Xiao) dos and don'ts (Yi Ji) With only 10% weight, it cannot surpass Ba zi (courtesy name) or five grids! Many parents, when giving their children born in the Year of the Horse (Ma) the name Zi Rat (Shu), must include "courtesy name" + "Wood (Mu) Zi" (courtesy name). Radicals + singular radicals, I found a bunch of bad meanings/implications (Han Yi) (courtesy name) They forced it together, completely ignoring it. Ba Zi favorable Useful Spirit (Shen) and Five Grid Numerology (Shu Zi Xue) Auspicious (Ji) Not Auspicious (Ji)! This is putting the cart before the horse!

Correct name giving (Qi Ming) Weight Sorting = Ba zi (courtesy name) Five Elements (Wu Xing) Joy (Xi) Use spirit / Focus Line (Yao) (40%, Core Heart (Xin)) > Five Grid Numerology (Shu Zi Xue) + Three Talents Auspicious (Ji) (30%, Name study (Xing Ming Xue) Core Heart (Xin)) > character meaning (Zi Yi) Phonetic meaning (20%, connotation of the text Transformation (Hua)) >Animal sign (Sheng Xiao) dos and don'ts (Yi Ji) (10%, For reference only)! Real-life example: A parent, child Zi Rat (Shu) genus Horse (Ma), Ba zi (courtesy name) Joy (Xi) Metal (Jin) (Metal (Jin) required) However, superstition believes that horses (Ma) must eat grass (grass zi (courtesy name) head), and forcibly give the child Zi Rat (Shu) name giving (Qi Ming) "Horse (Ma) cute" (cute = grass zi (courtesy name) head + grass zi (courtesy name) head, no Metal (Jin))., Results: a. Five grids: Horse (Ma) 10 + Cute 14 + Cute 14 → Heaven GrId (Ben Wo) 11 (Auspicious (Ji)), Personality GrId (Ben Wo) 24 (Auspicious (Ji)), Earth GrId (Ben Wo) 28 (Wide Water (Shui), Duckweed, Great inauspiciousness (Da Xiong)! Lonely Fortune (Yun)! One of the four Short life Numbers (Duan Ming Shu)!) → Earth GrId (Ben Wo) 28, Great inauspiciousness (Da Xiong)! for example. Ba zi (courtesy name), Joy (Xi), and Metal (Jin) were not added; Enemy Spirit (Shen) and Wood (Mu) were added. zi (courtesy name) head genus Wood (Mu), Metal restricts Wood (Mu), Wood (Mu) consumes Metal (Jin)) →That's completely the opposite! c. Mengmeng → courtesy name, too childish. It's awkward to be called "Mengmeng Manager" when you're 30! ④【Joy (Xi) Use spirit / Focus Line (Yao) 3 simple methods to judge = even beginners can avoid pitfalls】=a. Find a master who truly understands Ba zi (courtesy name) (be careful to distinguish between scammers Zi Rat (Shu)!) Pay to watch Joy (Xi) Use spirit / Focus Line (Yao), and spend some money on Neighboring (Bi) to randomly reinforce Ji (Earth) (Ji) by 100 times; for example. If we look at it from Ji (Earth) (Ji): a simple judgment Day master Strength (Li Liang) → If Ba zi (courtesy name) Generating and supporting (Sheng Fu) Day Master (Ri Chen) zi (courtesy name) (Resource stars (Yin Xing) + Friends and Rob Wealth (Jie Cai)) = Strong Day Master (Ri Chen), Joy (Xi) Overcoming-draining-consuming (given name) (Officer and Killings (Guan Sha) + Food and Hurting (Shi Shang) + Wealth stars (Cai Xing)); If zi (courtesy name) of Overcoming-draining-consuming (given name) Day Master (Ri Chen) = Weak Day Master (Ri Chen), Joy (Xi) Generating and supporting (Sheng Fu) (Resource stars (Yin Xing) + Friends and Rob Wealth (Jie Cai)); c. Season Jie (Jie) Judgment: winter (Dong) Heaven (Tian) (Hai Pig (Zhu) Zi Rat (Shu) Month) The person = general Fire (Huo) weak Joy (Xi) Fire (Huo); People born in summer (Xia) Heaven (Tian) (Si Snake (She) Wu Horse (Ma) moon) = general Water (Shui) weak Joy (Xi) Water (Shui); People born in spring (Chun) Heaven (Tian) (Yin Tiger (Hu) Mao Rabbit (Tu) Moon) = general Metal (Jin) weak Joy (Xi) Metal (Jin); People born in autumn (Qiu), Heaven (Tian), Shen Monkey (Hou), You Rooster (Ji), moon = general Wood (Mu), weak Joy (Xi), Wood (Mu). This is just a rough estimate, 80% applicable, and 20% special patterns (Ge Ju) are not applicable, for reference only; ⑤ [Pitfall Avoidance Summary = Five Elements (Wu Xing) Animal sign (Sheng Xiao) Pitfall Avoidance 3 Iron Rules] = Iron Rule 1: Ba zi (courtesy name) is always "Joy (Xi) Use spirit / Focus Line (Yao) "Make up for what is needed," not "make up for what is lacking"! Iron Rule 2: Five Elements (Wu Xing) Supplement Joy (Xi) Use spirit / Focus Line (Yao) It should be "moderate", 40%-60% is fine, don't overdo it! Iron Rule 3: Animal sign (Sheng Xiao) dos and don'ts (Yi Ji) is only a 10% reference and can never be surpassed. Above Ba Zi favorable Useful Spirit (Shen) and Five Grid Numerology (Shu Zi Xue)!

Parents born in the 1980s and 1990s grew up watching Qiong Yao dramas, Mary Sue novels, and Wen, the president of Ba Dao (the Way), giving their children... Zi Rat (Shu) name giving (Qi Ming) Pentad / five-day period (Hou) I unconsciously empathized with "female lead Wind (Feng)" and "male lead Wind (Feng)," thinking "as long as given name (Ming Zi) sounds good, that's fine." But these "given name (Ming Zi)" hours are Pentad / five-day period (Hou). You might find it beautiful, but entering the workforce after 30 would be so awkward that you might think... name changing (Gai Ming)! ① [Typical characteristics of Qiong Yao's Wind (Feng)/Mary Sue Wind (Feng)/Novel's male protagonist Wind (Feng) given name (Ming Zi) = 3 major symbols] = Symbol 1: Excessive abuse of "cold (Han)/Xi/Luo/Xuan/Shang/Li/Yu/Jin/Chen/Chen Dragon (Long)/Zi Rat (Shu)/Ink (Mo)" these zi (courtesy name) → Originally these zi (courtesy name) They're great to read alone, but too many people use them, and when combined, they have a strong "novel Wind (Feng)": Neighboring (Bi), such as =Zi Rat (Shu)xuan, zihan, Ink (Mo)xuan, xi Chen Dragon (Long), Luo Li, Shang Li, Yu Chen, Jin cold (Han)...; Mark 2: Implication (Han Yi) is too vague and does not connect with Earth Qi (Vital Energy). It is all "artistic beauty" but has no practical Meaning. → Neighboring (Bi) For example, "cold (Han) Ink (Mo)" = cold (Han) Ink (Mo)? What does it mean Overthinking (Si)? "Shangli" = Grief (Bei) wounded glass? That's so sad! "Luo Xi" = the Yang light of Luo Water (Shui)? It's alright, but it's too fictional; Sign 3: It sounds beautiful, but it reads like a character in a novel. ming (given name) is not suitable for real life. → Neighboring (Bi) Can you imagine a 40-year-old business owner or government official named "Huangfu Shang", "Murong Xue", or "south (Nan) Gong cold (Han)"? That's so centered! ②【These Real Embarrassing Experiences of given name (Ming Zi) in The Workplace After 30 = Real Feedback from HR/Clients】= Feedback 1 (HR Manager, 12 years of work): "If I receive a resume with The names 'Yan Luoli,'Shangguan Shang,' or 'Xuanyuan cold (Han) who makes me feel unreliable. There are too many resumes." Feedback 2 (Sales Director, 10 years of experience): "We have a new colleague in our department named 'Li Ink (Mo)Xuan'. When I first introduced him to a client, the client asked, 'What's your name (Ming Zi)?' He said, 'My name is Li Ink (Mo)Xuan.' The client joked, 'Oh, a great scholar! A calligrapher?' This made him very embarrassed. Later, the clients all called him 'Xiao Li.' He even told me that he wanted to change his name to a more ordinary given name (Ming Zi)." Feedback 3 (Civil servant, 8 years of service): "When our unit promoted cadres, we had a colleague named 'Wang Yuyan' (the same Wang Yuyan from the eighth part of Heaven (Tian) Dragon (Long)). She had very strong professional skills, but every time the boss mentioned her name, he wanted to laugh. During a meeting, the whole audience suppressed laughter when asked, 'Now, Comrade Wang Yuyan, please speak.' In the end, we promoted another colleague named 'given name (Ming Zi), who was ordinary but slightly less capable, because the boss felt that given name (Ming Zi) was too 'novel Transformation (Hua)' and didn't seem steady enough." ③【Excessive abuse of zi (courtesy name) black (Hei)ming (given name) = These zi (courtesy name) aren't bad, but rather overused and have become "popular zi (courtesy name)"】 = Sorted by abuse degree = Zi Rat (Shu), zi, zi, xuan, xuan, Han, cold (Han), xi, luo, Ink (Mo), Mo, Chen Dragon (Long), Chen, Chen, yu, yu, jin, jing, rui, rui, ran, ran, xin, yi, should, yi, yi, nuo, xi, tong, mu, mu… These zi (courtesy name)Ink (Mo), mu Chen Dragon (Long), ruoxi, yutong, xinyi → they're all popular ming (given name)! Just like today's "Jianguo/Hongmei", 50 years from now it will be "the older generation". given name (Ming Zi)"; ④ [Under the same conditions for Closeness/Neighboring (Bi) in real-world cases, the success rate of ordinary ming (given name) Closeness/Neighboring (Bi) novels is 30% higher.] An American university conducted an experiment: two identical resumes, one named "John Smith" (a very common given name (Ming Zi)) and the other named "Zander Sterling Silver" (a very novel Transformation (Hua), a noble Transformation (Hua) given name (Ming Zi)), resulted in ordinary given names (Ming Zi). The resume response rate for the Closeness/Neighboring (Bi) novel ming (given name) is 32% higher! Because the recruiter, Subconscious (Qian Yi Shi), feels that ordinary people with given name (Ming Zi) are more reliable, more down-to-earth, and more easily integrated into the team! The situation in center (Zhong) is similar: under the same conditions, the interview pass rate for people named "Wang Wei" and "Li Na" (ordinary ming (given name)) is 20%-30% higher than that of people named "Huangfu Shang" and "summer (Xia) Moxi" (novel ming (given name)) in Closeness/Neighboring (Bi)! ⑤【Pitfall Avoidance Solution = Average (Ping) 3 formulas for balancing "unique" and "steady"】=Formula 1: "Classic zi (courtesy name) + Unique zi (courtesy name)" = Use classic zi (courtesy name) (Wei/Na/Ming/Hua/Overthinking (Si)/Yuan/Wen/Bo, these steady zi (courtesy name)) paired with a unique zi (courtesy name) that is meaningful but not exaggerated (Yi/Heng/Shu/Xiao/Wan/Xun, these secondary zi (courtesy name) are commonly used but not obscure) → Example: Wang Overthinking (Si) Yi, Li Mingheng, Zhang Shuhan → Steady + unique, neither exaggerated nor Earth (Di); Formula 2: "Idioms/poems but not commonly used allusions" = Don't use worn-out idioms like "Overthinking" or "Wind" (which are good but used too much). Find some uncommon but meaningful poems and allusions → Neighboring (Bi) such as "picking weeds", "swallows flying", "south (Nan) has trees" (Mu), "high Mountain" (Shan) → Choose two zi (courtesy name) from the center (Zhong). Combination (don't select all of them, it's too deliberate): Wang south (Nan) Qiao (south (Nan) has Qiao Wood (Mu)), Li CaiWei (8th Earthly Branch), Zhang Yanning (swallows fly, Zi Rat (Shu) returns home, sends them far into the wilderness, gazes fail to catch up, stands to weep? Wrong idea Overthinking (Si) good: "Gao Mountain (Shan) looks up, Jing Xing walks" → Gao Jing Xing! Perfect! Gao = surname, Jing Xing = main road, Neighboring (Bi) metaphorically means upright behavior and noble character, Confucius (Kong Zi) evaluates Si Horse (Ma)'s father Si Horse (Ma) talks about "Gao Mountain (Shan) looks up, Jing Xing walks", Implication (Han Yi) good, not rotten on the streets, steady and unique!); Formula 3: "Avoid all internet hot words and trending zi (courtesy name) databases" = List a black (Hei)ming (given name) from Ji (Earth) (Ji) Heart (Xin). Single (those listed above excessively abuse zi (courtesy name)), name giving (Qi Ming) zi (courtesy name) Pentad / five-day period (Hou) Try to avoid, or use only one, and do not combine two or even three popular zi (courtesy name) (Neighboring (Bi) such as zi + han = two popular zi (courtesy name) superimposed = Extinction (Jue) for popular ones); Final piece of advice: given name (Ming Zi) is for a generation of Zi Rat (Shu), not for junior center (Zhong) students. 20 years from now, when you become a business owner, a company leader, or a parent of Zi Rat (Shu), how would you like others to call you? Don't let center (Zhong) 2's given name (Ming Zi) become an embarrassment for your entire life!

The center (Zhong) country is a land of etiquette, emphasizing "taboos." giving a child a Zi Rat (Shu) name giving (Qi Ming) Extinction (Jue) is a courtesy name against having sex with elders. Emphasis is the most basic etiquette and respect! ① [The origin of the taboo text Transformation (Hua) = the tradition of the text Transformation (Hua) in 2000] = The taboo text Transformation (Hua) originated in the Zhou Dynasty. The Book of Rites, Chapter 1, records: "When entering a country, ask about customs; when entering a door, ask about taboos" (when entering a country, ask about the customs of Earth (Di)Wind (Feng); when entering a family, ask about the taboos of that family). Taboos are mainly divided into four categories: a. [National taboo (public taboo)] = Avoid The Emperor (Huang Di) and Confucius (Kong Zi)'s name taboo (Ming Hui), Neighboring (Bi) For example, Emperor Kangxi's name was Xuan Ye, so in the Qing Dynasty's Pentad/five-day period (Hou) "Xuan" zi (courtesy name) was missing the last stroke, "Black Tortoise/Mysterious Warrior (Xuan Wu)". Changed to "Spirit (Shen) Takemon"; Confucius (Kong Zi) ming (given name) qiu, so qiu zi (courtesy name) must lack center (Zhong). If the surname Qiu is upright, the surname should be changed to "Qiu" and a right Ears (Er) should be added next to it; for example. 【Family taboo (Private taboo)】= Avoiding the name taboo (Ming Hui) of the ancestors and elders of the family Ji (Earth) (Ji), which is the key point of this article. The given name (Ming Zi) of father, grandfather, and great-grandfather, Descendants (Zi Sun) Extinction (Jue) cannot be used directly or homophonically. c. [Taboo] = Avoid Duke of Zhou (Zhou Gong), Confucius (Kong Zi), Meng Zi Rat (Shu) These saints name taboo (Ming Hui); d. [Constitutional taboo] = name taboo (Ming Hui), Neighboring (Bi), such as "Only state officials are allowed to Light fires (Huo), but ordinary people are not allowed to Light (Deng)." It means avoiding the taboo of climbing onto the land of state officials (climbing = Light (Deng)). In modern society, taboos and sacred taboos are no longer used, but "family taboos" remain a very important etiquette! ②【Scope of Modern Family Taboos = Which Elders (Extinction (Jue) Cannot Be Repeated?) = Scope 1: 【Direct Blood (Xue) Facing (Xiang) Previous 3 Generations = Nuclear Heart (Xin) Taboo = Extinction (Jue) Cannot Be Repeated!】 = Father, Mother, Grandfather, Grandmother, Maternal Grandfather, Maternal Grandmother (6 elders in total) → These 6 are the child's closest elders. Extinction (Jue) Cannot Be Repeated with Their given name (Ming Zi) courtesy name or courtesy name! Including "formal name (Da Ming),"nickname/pet name (Xiao Ming)," and "Commonly Used Foreign name (art name)" are not acceptable! Neighboring (Bi) For example, if the father's name is "Li Wei", the child cannot be named "Li Wei" (homonym), "Li Xiaowei" (with Wei zi (courtesy name)), or "Wang Wei" (with the father's given name? No, the child has the same surname as the father, but with Wei zi (courtesy name) is also not acceptable, as many families (Jia Ting) mind). Scope 2: [Collateral Blood (Xue) relatives Facing (Xiang) 2 generations ago = Important taboo = Try not to emphasize it] = Uncle, uncle, aunt, uncle, aunt (Parents (Fu Mu) Brothers (Xiong Di) Sisters (Jie Mei)) → These 6 are also close relatives, try not to emphasize zi (courtesy name) unless the family does not mind; Scope 3: [More distant elders = General taboo = If the Family minds, avoid them; if not, forget it] = Great-grandParents (Fu Mu), maternal great-grandParents (Fu Mu), cousins → Depending on Family customs, traditional large families should be avoided, but modern small families (Jia Ting) do not matter; ③【Why does modern society still emphasize taboos? 3 practical reasons (not feudal superstition)】=Reason 1:【Basic respect and politeness】=You should give your child a given name (Ming Zi) that is the same as his grandfather's given name. Whenever Grandpa hears someone call his grandson Zi Rat (Shu) and Ji (Earth) (Ji), he uses the same given name (Ming Zi) and Heart (Xin). What will it feel like inside? "Are you hoping I'll die soon so my grandson can take over my job?" → Most elderly people feel uncomfortable, disrespected, and disrespected by their younger siblings, which affects Family harmony! Reason 2: [To avoid the awkwardness of a Family gathering] = During the Chinese New Year, the whole Family is reunited, and someone calls out "Zhang Wei!" → The father and son answer the Correspondence (Ying) together, and the whole Family bursts into laughter. Isn't that awkward? Reason 3: [Traditional family tradition: Supporting (Cheng) = Elders' given name (Ming Zi) is the mark of the family] = center (Zhong) Chinese people have a strong sense of family. Elders' given name (Ming Zi) is the mark of a generation, while younger generations' given name (Ming Zi) Correspondence (Ying) should be the mark of the new generation. They should not be confused, otherwise the family hierarchy will be confused. ④ [Transnational marriage/Parents (Fu Mu) given name (Ming Zi) is particularly good = 4 methods for handling center (Zhong)] = Not all families (Jia Ting) strictly avoid taboos. Neighboring (Bi), such as transnational marriage (there is no taboo word Transformation (Hua) abroad), or Parents (Fu Mu) given name (Ming Zi), is particularly good to pass on to children Zi Rat (Shu) (Neighboring (Bi)). For example, if the father's name is "Li white (Bai)," and the mother really wants the child to be called Zi Rat (Shu) as well as "Li white (Bai)," the following method can be used to fold the center (Zhong): Method 1: [Passed down from generation to generation: ming (given name) = Not related to Parents (Fu Mu), but related to grandParents (Fu Mu)] = west (Xi) Many families (Jia Ting) and Joy (Xi) prefer to use elders' names. given name (Ming Zi) given to a child Zi Rat (Shu) naming (given name), Neighboring (Bi) For example, if the grandfather is called "John", and the grandson is also called "John", then add "second generation", "third generation" or "little XX". center (Zhong) can also be like this, Neighboring (Bi). For example, if the grandfather is called "Li Jianguo" and the grandson is called "Li Jianguo II"?

No, that's too strange. Change it to [nickname / pet name (Xiao Ming) is close to elders, formal name (Da Ming) is not] → Grandpa's formal name (Da Ming) is "Li Jianguo", nickname / pet name (Xiao Ming) His name is "Guoqiang," and his grandson's formal name (Da Ming) is "Li Haoyu." His nickname/pet name is (Xiao Ming). The name "Guoqiang" conveys both Receiving/Supporting (Cheng) and does not shy away from it; Method 2: [Homophone zi (courtesy name) replacement = the sound is the same as zi (courtesy name), but the meaning of Overthinking (Si) is different] = the father is called "Li Wei" → the child is called "Li Wei" (homophone is different from zi (courtesy name)), "Li Wei" (homophone is different from zi (courtesy name)), "Li Wei" (homophone is different from zi (courtesy name)) → the sound is similar, but the zi (courtesy name) is different, which also expresses the meaning of Receiving/Supporting (Cheng) Overthinking (Si), which many families (Jia Ting) can accept; Method 3: [Character deconstruction (Chai Zi) method = Split the elder's given name (Ming Zi) into two parts, and use part of the child's Zi Rat (Shu)] = The father's name is "Li Ming" (Sun + Moon) → The child's name is "Li Heaven (Tian) Sun" (using Sun zi (courtesy name)), "Li Heavenly Moon (Yue Liang)" (using Moon zi (courtesy name)); The father's name is "Wang Jia" (people + Gui) → The children's names are "Wang Renjie" (using people's name (courtesy name)) and "Wang Guiyi" (using Guizi (courtesy name)); Method 4: [Elder given name (Ming Zi) Do] __cn_ordinal_3__zi (courtesy name) of formal name (Da Ming) = surname (Xing Shi) + Generation name (Zi Bei) / unique zi (courtesy name) + zi (courtesy name) of elder given name (Ming Zi)] = Neighboring (Bi) For example, if the father is named "Zhang Wei" → the child is named "Zhang Haoran"? No, Zhang + Hao + Wei = Zhang Haowei! Adding a zi (courtesy name) between the centers (Zhong) and putting the father's great zi (courtesy name) at the end conveys a sense of Receiving/Supporting (Cheng) without completely emphasizing ming (given name), which many families (Jia Ting) can accept! ⑤ [Avoidance Plan = name giving (Qi Ming) Taboo Avoidance 3-Step Checklist to Ensure No Taboos avoid] = Step 1: [Make a Taboo giving (given name) List] = Take the child's father/mother/grandfather/grandmother/maternal grandfather/maternal grandmother/uncle/uncle/aunt/uncle/aunt "formal name (Da Ming) + nickname / pet name (Xiao Ming) + Outer hao (art name)" List them all and write them down on a piece of paper; Step 2: [Comparison Check One by One] = Your chosen given name (Ming Zi), each zi (courtesy name), compare with ming (given name). For each zi (courtesy name) on the form, check 3 points: a. character form (Zi Xing) Is it the same? (Complete courtesy name = No); for example. Is the pronunciation (including tone) the same? (Full emphasis = most Family (Jia Ting) is not allowed, unless you don't mind); c. Is the pronunciation of strong / supporting (Xiang) near (dialect) the same? (Also note the homonym of the dialect center (Zhong)); Step 3: [Family Confirmation] = Send the given name (Ming Zi) to your parents/grandparents/maternal grandparents and ask explicitly, "Does this given name (Ming Zi) have any emphasis on zi (courtesy name) with our elders? Do you mind?" → Don't be shy about Overthinking (Si) asking, ask the general Neighboring (Bi) child (Zi Rat (Shu) beforehand, and then change it after birth! Final advice: Avoiding taboos is not feudal superstition; it is the foundation of Family harmony, respect for elders, and etiquette in the Chinese people's Bone (Gu)Zi Rat (Shu). Spend an extra 10 points on Bell (Zhong) to compare, and spend less Incipient Moment (Ji) months going to the police station. name changing (Gai Ming)! ⚠ ️