Four Relationship Types Adaptation: Friendship, Love, Work, Family (Jia Ting) Comprehensive Analysis | Xuan Xue (mystical studies) Encyclopedia
Introduction to relationship types, the adaptability characteristics of different relationships and key business points
Relationships between two people are not limited to love, but also include different types such as friendship, work partners, and family. Different types of relationships require different focuses and operating methods. This paper analyzes in detail the adaptation characteristics and management points of four main relationship types.
(1), Why distinguish between relationship types
There are many types of relationships between two people, and different types of relationships have different standards for compatibility and business focuses. Neighboring (Bi) For example, the best friend is not necessarily the best lover; The best work partner is not necessarily suitable for being friends. Understanding the adaptation characteristics of different relationship types can help us: ① Find our position in different relationship centers (Zhong); ② Manage different relationships in an appropriate way; ③ Avoid problems caused by role confusion; ④ Better understand and accept the differences in different relationships between Earth (Di) and center (Zhong).
(2), friendship
Friendship is a Neutral/Average (Ping) relationship based on shared interests and values. The key points of friendship adaptation are: value face reaDing (4th Heavenly Stem), interest strong/supporting (Xiang), and mutual strong/supporting (Xiang). Understanding and support, and something to talk about. The characteristics of friendship are: Average (Ping), free, without many responsibilities and obligations, and coming together when they are together or breaking up when they are not. The key points of cultivating friendships are: maintaining contact, mutual respect, giving each other space, appearing when the other person needs it, and not crossing boundaries. Good friendships can last a lifetime and are a precious treasure in life.
(3), love relationship
Love is based on an intimate relationship of attraction and Receiving/Supporting (Cheng). The key points of love compatibility are: mutual strength/support (Xiang), shared values, smooth communication, compatibility in Living habits (Sheng Huo Xi Guan), and a shared plan for Wei Goat (Wei). The characteristics of love are: exclusivity, intimacy, Receiving/Supporting, responsibility, and passion. The key to managing a relationship is: maintaining communication, creating romance, growing together, handling conflicts well, giving each other space, and staying true to your original Heart (Xin). Love is different from friendship; it requires more responsibility and Receiving/Supporting (Cheng) promises, and it also requires more management with the Heart (Xin).
(4), Working Partnerships
Working partners are cooperative relationships based on common goals. The key points of job adaptation are: complementary abilities, consistent goals, clear division of labor, efficient communication, and a strong sense of responsibility. The characteristics of working partnerships are: goal-oriented (Xiang), division of labor and cooperation, Beneficial (Li Yi) strong / supporting (Xiang) relationship, and time constraints (the project may disband after its completion). The key points of managing a working partnership are: clear division of labor, timely communication, keeping promises to receive/support, mutual support, and clear separation of public and private matters. Good work partners can achieve twice the result with half the effort, and may even become successful in their careers. Noble One (Gui Ren).
(5), Family (Jia Ting) relation
Family (Jia Ting) relationships are kinship relationships based on Blood (Xue) ties or marriage. The key to Family (Jia Ting) relationship adaptation is: consistent Family values (Jia Ting Guan Nian) and mutual support (Xiang). Be inclusive, responsible, respect elders, and care for younger generations. The characteristics of Family (Jia Ting) relationships are: non-selective (Blood (Xue) ties), long-term stability, great responsibility, and deep emotions. The key points of managing Family (Jia Ting) relationships are: mutual strong/supporting (Xiang) respect, maintaining boundaries, Receiving/supporting (Cheng) taking responsibility, frequent communication, and cherishing the Fate/Destiny connection (Yuan Fen). Family (Jia Ting) is a harbor, and it is also the relationship that most needs to be managed with Heart (Xin).
(6), transformation and boundary of different relationships
Sometimes, different relationships can transform during The Pentad/five-day period (Hou), such as Closeness/Neighboring (Bi), where friends become The Lovers (Lian Ren), colleagues become friends, or The Lovers (Lian Ren). To become family, etc. Relationship Transformation requires attention: ① Clearly define the Transformation (Hua) of the relationship and adjust the strong/supporting (Xiang) pattern; ② Don't treat new relationships with old patterns; ③ Respect the other person's feelings and don't take things for granted; ④ Even if the conversion fails, it should end with dignity. At The same time, there should be boundaries between different relationships. For example, in Closeness/Neighboring (Bi), don't treat your work partners like The Lovers (Lian Ren), don't treat your friends like emotional trash cans, and don't treat your family like Outgoing Qi (Chu Qi). Clear boundaries allow all kinds of relationships to develop healthily.